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Generation Vet: The New Young Heroes

 
Marines from Alpha Company, 1st Battalion, 6th Marine Regiment, 24th Marine Expeditionary Unit patrol an area of Garmsir in the Helmand province in Afghanistan on May 4, 2008. (Cpl. Alex C. Guerra, U.S. Marine Corps./D.O.D.)

Marines from Alpha Company, 1st Battalion, 6th Marine Regiment, 24th Marine Expeditionary Unit patrol an area of Garmsir in the Helmand province in Afghanistan on May 4, 2008. (Cpl. Alex C. Guerra, U.S. Marine Corps./D.O.D.)

I’ve always been more than a little uneasy on Veterans Day.  I’ve worn a uniform most of my life and in the last decade – for obvious reasons – the number of times I hear “thank you for your service” has taken a dramatic spike.  But there is a wide range  of “service” out there. Recently, I was reminded of just how much difference there is between us “Vets.”

Last week I was standing in front 100 marine officers, all of who recently returned from combat tours in Iraq and Afghanistan. Most of them had scars (one kind or another) from their service.  The glaring difference between their military experience and mine – actual combat – to one side, I couldn’t help but be reminded of what else made them so different.

These young men and women (two-thirds of them were under 28 years old)  had joined the service between 2003 and 2007. What that means is that they spent years of their young lives watching their friends and families come home dead or wounded and still said, “Sign me up.” At a time in the world where going into harms way was an imperative rather than a remote possibility, these people had volunteered anyway.

That alone is huge. That by itself is incredible. That fact – regardless of whether they ever saw combat or not – make this generation of veteran’s very different than mine, and I think we should all respect that. Circumstantial or not, the decision to serve made by all young men and women today required considerations that most in my generation simply did not have to make.

Misconceptions:

I don’t remember at any time in my youth hearing the phrase “You kids today are just so darned respectful! – Hard working too!”  That’s because we actually weren’t.  We’ve just gotten to a place in our lives where we realize that being respectful and hard working are how we should be, and began to believe that we’ve always been that way.

When addressing any group on leadership I invariable get questions about handling some perceived generational divide.  Always posed by someone my age, the questions veil (not well) a sort of contempt for the younger generation as being less respectful or as possessing less motivation or less something else.  In truth, it’s almost always we who fail to respect them first and we should quit blaming them for reciprocating.

The onus is on us (older vets) to respect them.  It is our responsibility to be an example of the kind of people they should become by first recognizing them for being truly great people already.   In the last decade they said, “Sign me up.” To glaze over that as being the same act to serve that I made in 1983 would be a mistake.  It’s not that those who joined before the war wouldn’t have; it’s not about us.  It is about what they did.  It was pure nobility.

To those who have sent messages of support and thanks today, I really do appreciate it – but this year I’m going to defer that respect to my own heroes; this latest bunch of real honest-to-God volunteers who knew exactly what they were in for, and did it anyway.  They have earned a whole new level of respect from me and I wanted them to know it.

Have a good Veterans Day.

~ Mario


About Mario Vittone

    Mario Vittone

    Mario Vittone has twenty-one years of combined service  in the U.S. Navy and Coast Guard.

    His writing on maritime safety has appeared in Yachting,  Salt Water Sportsman, MotorBoating, gCaptain, On Scene, Lifelines,  and Reader’s Digest.

    He has lectured extensively on topics ranging from leadership and innovation to sea survival  and immersion hypothermia.

    Mario worked as an Aviation Survival Technician and  Helicopter Rescue Swimmer for the U.S. Coast Guard  in New Orleans, LA and Elizabeth City, NC, flying on  hundreds of search and rescue cases.

    He is currently working as a Marine Safety Specialist with Coast Guard Sector Hampton Roads in Norfolk, VA.

    Disclaimer: The views and opinions expressed by the author are not necessarily those of the Department of Homeland Security or the U.S. Coast Guard.

    Web Site: http://mariovittone.com/
    Email: mario.vittone@gmail.com

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